Your Hardest Family Question: How Do I Trust My Husband When ... - Meridian Magazine
Question My husband and I have been married for 40 years. Both raised in the LDS Church. He was introduced to porn through another Boy Scout, and it has been a problem off and on all his life. He hid it from me, but I've caught him multiple times after finding things on his phone, finding it on the search history on the computer, or walking in when he's watching it. Something I've observed is that when he is looking at porn again, he also finds a scantily dressed woman or the prettiest woman in the room and stares at her, with me right next to him. I have told him how hurtful it all is. We've tried counseling a couple of times, after I set it up. One time he yelled at me and the counselor and was very angry another time. He told me that he didn't like the second counselor because she talked too much. He's done nothing to take care of it on his own except confessing a couple of times to the bishop about his actions. He avoids the topic and if ...