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Lillie-Beth Brinkman, Callie Athey and Helen Ford Wallace  |  Special to The Oklahoman QUESTION : A friend recently lost his sister to cancer. I did not know her or his family personally but he mentioned the celebration of life was in the upcoming week. I got the feeling he wanted me to attend. Is it appropriate to attend as a supportive friend? Or is it more respectful to send a sympathy card? CALLIE'S ANSWER : Of course it is appropriate to go and I'm sure greatly appreciated. Very kind of you to go to support your friend on what I'm sure will be a very tough day. LILLIE-BETH'S ANSWER: I think going and supporting your friend in his grieving would mean a lot to him since he mentioned the celebration to you, as well. You don't have to stay long, and you can feel out the situation once you get there. Perhaps you can bring a card or a plant as well or send that to your friend separately. Any way that you can acknowledge his grieving is a lovely ge...

Heads up (literally), astrology buffs: On March 7, 2023, Saturn enters the part of the sky ruled by Pisces, where it will remain until February 13, 2026. This is a big deal for all zodiac signs, as this is an astrological influence that hasn't occurred since 1996, and one that astrologers are watching to predict both collective and personal trends. Saturn's astrological meaning derives from its astronomical position in the sky. Until Uranus was discovered in 1781 (due to the invention of the telescope), Saturn was believed to be the last planet in our solar system. While it is not the last, Saturn is the very last visible planet with the naked eye, an important fact to remember when understanding Saturn's place in astrology. Saturn In Astrology In Roman mythology, Saturn is the equivalent of the Greek god Kronos, an infamous titan who overthrew other kings to command the reins of the sky. In astrology, Saturn is known as "the god of time" and the "planet of...

Gemini and Sagittarius are two of the most interesting signs of the zodiac. On one hand, we have the airy Gemini, who is always up for an intellectual challenge or a stimulating conversation. Then there's Sagittarius, the fire sign who loves adventure and new experiences. You may not think these two would be compatible, due to their dueling chaotic natures — but surprisingly enough, they can make quite a match! Interested in discovering more about this cosmic pair? We've got you covered. Keep reading to explore the strengths and weaknesses of the relationship, plus discover how to overcome any struggles that may arise. Everything you need to know about Gemini and Sagittarius compatibility in love and friendship is right here. Overview of Gemini and Sagittarius Before we dive into what the stars have to say about a Gemini-Sagittarius relationship, let's start by covering each individual sign's personality traits and characteristics. Gemini (May 21st to June 21st) Gemini...

 Just like gemstones, numbers, and colours, flowers are highly significant in the Chinese zodiac. Therefore, paying attention to the lucky flower corresponding to our sign can bring good fortune and luck. We're obsessed with having flowers in our house as well as at work. Not because we think we're in  Sex And The City but because flowers can brighten up any room. Floral arrangements add positivity to our home or office space and invoke happy feelings, keeping stress and anxiety at bay. Flowers have played a significant role in Chinese culture for centuries, prevalent in everything from food and beverages to decorations. For instance, the famous Chinese Rose is paramount for the perfume and cosmetics industry and Azalea possesses excellent medicinal properties. The benefits of flowers are indeed endless! Image credit: Sergey Shmidt/ Unsplash Each Chinese zodiac animal has a lucky flower attached to it that enhances the sign's personality as well as ele...

When your best friend's birthday rolls around, you know the drill! It's time to get him or her a thoughtful present . You might also want to send a birthday card (or text) or make a thoughtful birthday post on Instagram in honor of their special day. If you're stuck on what to write, you've come to the right place. We have plenty of ideas for the best birthday wishes for best friends , including birthday blessings, simple birthday messages, and funny quips. When it comes to writing a unique birthday wish for your friend, it can be hard to know where to start. One option is to think about where and how you met. Whether you met in preschool, college, or through your kids, you can incorporate something about how you met into your birthday wish for your friend. Another option is to think about how you spend your time together. Referencing something special that the two of you share is a thoughtful way to get started with writing a birthday wish. More Birthday Fun And if ...

Occupational therapists focus on helping people with disabilities or illness perform activities that bring meaning to their lives. In the University of Michigan-Flint's occupational therapy doctorate program, students learn to be effective therapists by participating in meaningful activities themselves. One "case" in point is the innovations and technology class taught by Donna Case, assistant professor of occupational therapy, where second-year students build assistive technologies to help patients be more independent. Students make non-skid plates, weighted utensils and toothbrushes with adaptive handles for patients with Parkinson's disease who are experiencing tremors. The products are then donated to the Michigan Parkinson Foundation for use by their members. Students also adapt toys with electronic switches that make them sing or dance to increase accessibility. The toys made this semester were donated to the Genesee Intermediate School District for use in their...

On the ninth day of Navratri 2023 (Maha Navami or Ram Navami) , devotees worship Maa Mahagauri , the ninth form of the Hindu goddess Maa Durga . Ram Navami is a significant Hindu festival celebrated in India during the auspicious time of Chaitra Navratri. It marks the birthday of Lord Rama, one of the ten avatars of Lord Vishnu and a central figure in the Hindu epic, the Ramayana. The festival falls on the ninth day of Chaitra Navratri, which is a nine-day festival that celebrates the power of Goddess Durga. It usually falls in the months of March or April, depending on the Hindu lunar calendar. And in 2023 the festival of Chaitra Navratri began on 22 March 2023 and will end on 30 March 2023 (Ram Navami). The festival is celebrated with great enthusiasm across the country, and devotees observe fasts, offer prayers, and perform pujas in honor of Lord Rama. Temples and homes are decorated with lights, flowers, and rangolis to mark the occasion. Happy Ram Navami...